Yesterday I fell asleep 4 AM. Still I’m functioning perfectly, the secret?
Currently my job is scheduled perfectly. I do 80% work weeks, which means I need to wake up around 9 AM and be at work around 10 to 12 AM, so there is plenty of time to wake up at the morning. Five hours sleep does not sound a lot, but usually I’m able to sleep around 2 AM, combined to the long sleeps at weekends, means I’m almost perfect condition to do my work even after days I get less sleep. It took long time to get rid of the sleep deprivation, months at least, I don’t remember any more clearly. I’m different person now, unfortunately the taints my personality had 15 years ago are coming back =)
Quitting caffeine did not cure me not sleeping early enough, but for some reason it gave me more rest and reasonably longer sleep times, just enough to realize how messed up I have been for years. Secondly now I only drink alcohol free or family beer, alcohol too was taking some crucial minutes away from good sleep. Currently I drink coffee before noon, after that decaffeinated coffee.
After gaining some strength from sleeping I can analyze and observe myself a lot clearer way.
Surprisingly I found that instead of having DSPS I have some sort of insomnia.
I try to describe my insomnia:
FAQ:
Q: Do you still think you still have DSPS?
A: I don’t know. In broader sense yes, but I can pinpoint an insomnia, so that sense I don’t have DSPS.
Q: How does it present itself?
A: I don’t want to go to bed, close my eyes and start sleeping.
Q: Why don’t you want to?
A: I don’t know.
Q: Explain your feelings and thoughts at night when you plan to go to bed to sleep?
A: I don’t think about it, I don’t have feelings about it. I keep myself busy with PC, tablet, thinking some problems, making chess problems, book, tv… When I finally decide to sleep I fall asleep instantly.
Q: When you try to sleep too early what happens?
Day time when I normally think ‘things’, subjects in my mind are created in my mind and I can analytically observe and control them. However, at night these thoughts are gaining more visual depth and controlling them is harder, only way to really control them is change topic or stop thinking altogether. Longer I change topics faster my new thoughts are getting too vivid me to stay sleepy. These kind of thoughts are so strong that they wake me very fast and I’m full energy. They are powerful tool if used correctly in my work as a researcher. Is this the reason I don’t want to sleep, I don’t know. I don’t feel peace in me before I’m sleepy enough.
Q: Have you noticed that vivid dreams are stronger or weaker sometimes?
A: Definitely stronger if a) Sleep deprived b) Coffee c) Nicotine d) Lots of gaming e) Stress if I haven’t done anything, and I mean anything compared to something.
I haven’t notice anything that makes them weaker.
Q: Give a list of reasons you think might be the reason you don’t want to go to sleep?
A:
- Mental disorder (no idea what)
- Disfunctioning brain or hormonal reasons (I don’t remember names and I had preterm birth. I have used coffee and nicotine way over recommended dozes… way over. Just as an example in one point there was no point of asking me how many cups of coffee you have drank, but instead ‘How man coffee pots?’. I have read through the night with zero sleep to get past of exams whole my life. Btw we should make high schools and university a bit tougher so that one night read would not give you good grades. Actually that my brains have developed a method to learn vast amount of information fast to survive is one possibility)
- Stress (This is unlikely. Most likely I haven’t been too stressed last 23 years. I’m not really a stress heavy person. However, I have problems to motivate myself at work).
- Burning my brains too much, so they don’t know how to let go (Too much action combined to no sleep. Constant need to ‘think’ or ‘do’ something.
- Nightmares (This is possible because I don’t remember seeing nightmares in a sense that I felt scared in 15 years. But surely I do see nightmares?!? My so called nightmares, are stories where I have to survive or solve something, but I find them to be more like exciting stories than nightmares.)
- Addicted to non sleeping (This is seems reasonable given how addicted person I am. And it would explain my work process of leaving everything as late as possible and pushing my physical limits when deadline is getting the better of me and that wonderful feeling of winning myself when I mostly make it.)
Q: Why don’t you stop burning your brains, stop using nicotine and caffeine?
A: I’m the most addicted person in the world. I can do whatever motivates me, but those things are too sweet to let go.
Q: Suggestion: Try meditation and also keep an active thinking period where you only think, to let your brains to have some free air. Also you should put a stop of using games, internet and tablets at night. Also you should quit nicotine and caffeine. Can you do it?
A: I’m quite sure that I can’t do it like you suggested. I don’t want it enough. What I can do is to have 10 minute break per day with silent room technique and another 10 minutes for meditation. I can also promise to leave it to one normal coffee in a normal day and to 3 decaffeinated ones. Shutting media at night is probably impossible, I think about it. Maybe first two – meditation and active thinking – give me more tools and capabilities to do that. Quitting nicotine altogether is something I have been working close to 6 years already.